Posted on April 9, 2018
“What kind of kids do we want to raise?” Of course, we all want kids who are happy, think positive, and do good! That’s why it’s our Tools of Growth tagline. Furthermore, we want our children to be successful, resilient, confident, and courageous, as well as kind and forgiving. I believe all parents have that same vision for their children. Here’s the hard truth though: That’s not the result when we drive our children toward mainstream goals like getting the…
Posted on May 25, 2018
I was doing my meditation practice this morning, and my mind was a busy bee. I would manage a few blank seconds, then my mind would drift again. I’ve sharpened my awareness over the last few years of dedicated practice, so I notice within a few seconds when my thoughts float off. And I’m usually good at gently pulling it back to a quiet, blank space. Not this morning! With a ton of workshop proposals, prep for an upcoming…
Posted on March 22, 2018
“I’ve sacrificed my whole life for my kids, and they still don’t appreciate me.” “Parenthood has been one sacrifice after another. I’ve had to give up so much.” “This is not a good deal! I’ve had to keep sacrificing, yet the family keeps asking for more. I have nothing more to give.” In my parenting workshops and consultations, I’ve been hearing a lot of similar statements by parents. The word “sacrifice” is catching my attention a lot. Just last…
Posted on March 13, 2018
Tomorrow, March 14, is #Enough National Walk Out Day. This national call for students, teachers, school administrators, parents, and allies is to join a peaceful protest to support stricter gun control measures. It is time to stand with our children to enact change so these tragic shootings can be prevented once and for all. The #NationalSchoolWalkout will be held at 10:00 a.m. for 17 minutes (to honor the 17 lives that were lost at the Stoneman Douglas High School in…
Posted on April 2, 2018
Are you ready for kids? Can you afford them? What is the only thing that you should plan for? These days the average age of a first-time parent has jumped significantly! This is the oldest generation of parents to have ever existed. We can assume that this group is more mature and therefore more prepared for parenting, with a clearer understanding of what it takes, right? Why, then, are these two of the most frequently discussed questions at parent…